The First Gen Madrina

E-125 The ‘Good’ Social Worker Trap: When Helping Becomes Self-Abandonment with Stephanie Sorady, LCSW

Sara Diaz Season 35 Episode 125

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What happens when being “good” social worker becomes your identity?

 In this powerful episode, we sit down with Stephanie Sorady, LCSW, a Latina trauma therapist, speaker, and founder of Luz Trauma Therapy. Together we unpack the hidden weight that many first-gen social workers may carry.

From people-pleasing and over functioning to the deep impact of parentification, Stephanie brings a trauma-informed and culturally grounded perspective to the patterns that keep us stuck. Together, we explore how these roles show up in our relationships, mental health, and sense of self, and most importantly, how to begin unlearning them.

This conversation is especially for social workers who have been taught to hold it all together, often at the expense of their own needs. Stephanie shares insights on setting boundaries, navigating relational stress, and redefining what it means to be “strong” in a way that actually honors your well-being.

If you’ve ever felt like you have to do it all for everyone else...this episode is for you.